Dodgezilla,
My wife and I lost our first baby in January 2000. It absolutely tore my heart out, but we were surrounded by family and friends that eased the pain. Now we have Ryleigh, and she will be 3 in January. Although she has a congenital heart disease, and will undergo surgeries all her life, we are so blessed to have her that it takes the place of that terrible time in our lives. I guess what I am trying to say is it all works out in the end, we know what you are going through, and we wish your family nothing but the best.

Tiny