can someone tell me what their def. of a gold digger is? im just wondering. i think its pretty comical my ex called me a gold digger, but i thought a gold digger was someone who only used someone for money or went after them for their money. hmmmm couldn't be my ex...just curious

 

Only true if he has more money then you.

 

Here you go...

"A woman who associates with or marries a rich man in order to get valuables from him through gifts or a divorce settlement."

'Course he could be a broke and dirty prospector too.

 

well yeah he made more than i did....doesnt now, but did when we were married, but if i only wanted to use him for his money then i would have found someone with a better salary than his. i mean from all the awful names he has called me he is now resorting to gold digger....i think its rather comical myself

 

wh'o's choice to split ? If yours, he may be sayin that your just lookin for somone with money and that's why you 2 didn't work out.

 

ha no not my choice it was his...thank God that was his choice though, because i have never been happier and even though its just final today i have never felt such a weight lifted off my shoulders!

 

Just name calling? Hell, my ex is trying to turn an entire town against me, forwarding mesages between us to her friends and making me look like a total jerk, but all the while she is emailing my sister saying how sorry she is for all she's done, after I find out she's been frequenting Midnight Rodeo every week for over 6 months now. And it goes on and on...and I just have to laugh and tip my beer real high. I just ignore what I hear about that now.

 

oh yeah my ex does the same tells his friends all sorts of made up stuff im sure. i don't care anymore! i have talked to the people he is saying stuff to, or let me rephrase that...i have talked to the people that matter. so if it makes him feel better to call me a gold digger than by all means call me a gold digger. i have to come realize that people cut you down so they can feel better about themselves. if his choice is to bash me to his friends then by all means do what you have to do to make you happy...his choice and his loss. and of course you can't forget bringing people into this that shouldn't be in it in the first place...so that goes to show you how mature he is its onto bigger and better things for me...moving forward and not looking back for one second.

 

Whatever doesn't break you makes you stronger, it was hard for me to accept the inevitable and not care anymore. I've been through worse, and I just take it as a lesson learned.

 

you are correct...**** happens we learn from our mistakes and we move on. someone is out there for you!

 

Just tell your ex that your new truck is a gold color and your are really digging it!! Should make him very jealous.

 

Remember... no ex-bashing aggiegirl....

 

i can say this. My aunt and uncle were married for 30 years and had 2 boys. and one day that was it and it was over no bs and walked into court and that was itno money or nothing. They hadit all workedout before court. My next aunt and uncle 24 years same thing my uncle same thing 19 years my last one the baby of the bunch married 7 times 8 kids and this one was a mess from begining to endwith each and every husband. This all happened wheni was in the Marine Corps. I came home for Christmas and everybody always came to my parents house like 80 to 100 family members every year. All these divorces caused so much bitterness people stopped comming or if there was one over the one wasan't comming.I come from a big italian/spanish family. I tell people who don't no of these kind of familys don't look at the movies it was like i love lucy on steriods. I can remember sitting downand both my grandfathers one at each end of the table. When they spoke it was all over the would start and finish any and all family problems. Like a frying pan or something to knock sense into somebody with. they didn't care girls and boys were all treated the same! Sorry to hear about your problems. I really do miss alot of the family on the holidays at my parents house.

 

Yeah what HE said.............



I miss MY Ex..........but the rangemaster said my aim will improve with practice.

 

Yep, it's got to stop. If you guys want to fight and call each other names, talk about each other etc, then do it somewhere else.