Holycack

For some reason my radio and headlights only stay on for about 30 sec after the ignition in turned off, my father-in-laws 2005 will stay on at least twice as long. I looked through the owners manual and it states the lights should stay on for 90 sec. is there a way of changing this time? On another note I now have a new phone and it will not ring through my u-connect, the phone is connected as I can dial out using U-connect it just does not ring through the phone or the U-connect. My old phone worked flawless any ideas? BTW this is the 2nd phone of this style as the other one broke and neither would ring through the U-connect. Thanks