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What you do if it was your daughter

Old Oct 24, 2009 | 12:27 AM
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No reason to be firing rounds down range unless she was being raped. AND from what the news article stated, and in my opinion, the dad should not have had a weapon to begin with. Who the heck comes home and catches his daughter with someone in her bedroom, (with no signs of forcible entry), then goes to load his weapon to engage a perp? as previously stated, "it takes 2 too tango".
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Old Oct 24, 2009 | 02:14 AM
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throwing him out is my choice, immediately. once you closed the door, you are done. now let's talk raging hormones.....

read the headlines. 2.7 million rapes; 200,000 kidnappings (107,000 by persons known/custody) 41 billion dollar prostitution 'economy' nationwide,
and all the other bad news..... plus underage sex 91 % initiated by males.
this is only non pedofile stats.

uh. for some dads-forget about talking to your daughters about 'bad' boys chuckle chuckle wink wink.

talk to your sons. respect is learned at home......

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Old Oct 24, 2009 | 06:58 AM
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Originally Posted by Redleg
16 is age of consent in quite a few states actually, some southern states, even lower maybe?
Age of consent shouldn't matter.

Originally Posted by dslpwr81
We have all been in that boys shoes. I've been with my wife for 11 years. I'm two years older than her. We started dating when I was 17, she was 15. Not long after dating we did the YOU KNOW WHAT....
Like I said above, age of consent shouldn't matter. 16 or 60, doing something in someone else's house, that you KNOW you shouldn't be doing in the first place because the person that owns that house wouldn't approve, is irresponsible, rude and just plain WRONG! If you're going to do something you know to be wrong, expect to pay the consequences.

I think the guy did the right thing... almost. A few shots to the 'sensitive' areas is fine for effect. And to get your point across. But a weapon should never be used to threaten or wound, only to kill. So once he saw that the guy was still alive he should have finished the job properly.

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Old Oct 24, 2009 | 08:20 AM
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Call me old fashioned but I would get more satisfaction using my knuckles.
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Old Oct 24, 2009 | 08:41 AM
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Originally Posted by RAMRODD
Call me old fashioned but I would get more satisfaction using my knuckles.


X2


Nothing like a good ol beat down to tune somebody up.
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Old Oct 24, 2009 | 09:10 AM
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i try to tell my daughter everything i can about bad boys i pretty much know all the tricks of the trade, like i said i was a parents nightmare lol. if your gonna shoot someone for consentual sex with your daughter wouldnt rocksalt be the best. kinda like the old days for you old timers. but the daughter should have been punished. also just because its consentual its still illegal if they are under 18 and i believe the parents can press charges.
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Old Oct 24, 2009 | 09:20 AM
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also just because its consentual its still illegal if they are under 18 and i believe the parents can press charges.
Hmmmm. That's a good point. I don't know if the states that recognize it's consensual at 16 or 17 are still bound to enforce statutory rape under 18.

Bottom line as far as I'M concerned tho, is if it's MY house and I say 'no, you're not gonna do that', then you ain't gonna do it!

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Old Oct 24, 2009 | 09:24 AM
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yea thats true but the main thing is to educate them to prevent that early granparent syndrom like a lot of the welfare babies are
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Old Oct 24, 2009 | 11:31 AM
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What ever happened to talking to them about it.

make sure they are using protection etc... not shooting. thats just barbaric.
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Old Oct 24, 2009 | 11:48 AM
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well then i guess i'm just barbaric
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Old Oct 24, 2009 | 01:42 PM
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well then i guess I'm just barbaric
WE`LL RICH> NOT REALLY > GO BACK & READ YOUR HISTORY >
1700-1800-EARLY 1900`S _ IT WAS NOT UNCOMMON FOR A YOUNG WOMAN TO BE MARRIED AS YOUNG AS 12 YRS OLD & OFTEN TO SOME ONE TWICE HER AGE !

ALL THAT BEING TRUE & SAID - I HAVE 3 DAUGHTER`S - ONE IN HER 40`S ONE IN HER EARLY 20`S AND ONE NOT YET A TEEN !
THE TWO OLDER ONES BOTH MARRIED WITH CHILDREN (GOOD MARRIAGES )
THE ONE IN HER 20`S JUST RECENTLY HAD HER FIRST - HOWEVER SHE GRADUATED FROM COLLAGE FIRST >
THE YOUNGEST SAFE FOR NOW !
I HAVE ARMED THEM WITH THE KNOWLEDGE I LEARNED AS YOUR WORST NIGHTMARE AS A PARENT

IN MY MIND AT THE TIME MUST HAVE THOUGHT I WAS DON WAN - HOWEVER LOOKING BACK I WAS JUST WEEK AND NEVER COULD SAY NO TO A GIRL (WELL JUST ONCE )
I DON`T THINK THE GIRLS WERE TRYING TO IMPRESS ME ( WASN`T THAT MUCH TO IMPRESS) MORE FULFILLING THEIR OWN CURIOSITY -AND I BEING WEEK WAS WILLING TO HELP >
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Old Oct 24, 2009 | 02:23 PM
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yep i'm a rodeo cowboy so i know so many pick up lines that hopefully my daughter will know the BS when it starts to fly
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Old Oct 24, 2009 | 02:57 PM
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Originally Posted by chaikwa
I don't know if the states that recognize it's consensual at 16 or 17 are still bound to enforce statutory rape under 18.


You can't rape the willing. To me, it looks like the daughter was more than willing.
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Old Oct 24, 2009 | 03:03 PM
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statory rape is a term used for underage sex or sex with a minor not actual rape
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Old Oct 24, 2009 | 03:08 PM
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^^^^^^heheheh, shoot him now. (for Rich's rodeo cowboy history) LOL

naw, just kidding, I agree with the 'grab someone' theory of personal contact and conversational alignment. just can't actually do it.

wow, I actually had my nephews over and they had brought friends that were girls. I stated (and I am loud no matter when) girls upstairs, boys downstairs. one girl was not acting comfortably, so I asked her if she wanted to call her folks, or i'll drive her home (100 miles away). timidly, she said no.
creak sound in the night and I was face to face with one teen nephew who had brought the girl. no means no. his smirk told me 'yeah, you can't stay awake all night'. I slept at the door. that is the attitude I mean. father is the same way. catch me if you can.
the other 16 nephews are either married or respectful. throat prints don't go away soon I guess. love you guys here on DTR! go forth and prosper!
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