I want to do this right the first time, and after much research on this and other forums, this is my plan when I get back in January, all of your opinions are more than welcome.
'05 Ram 2500 CTD 4x4 CC/SB 6-Speed(G-56) Black.
Done: Line-X, RokkTech Sensor
Phase 1: Jan/Feb '07: 35x12.5R17 Toyo Mud Terrain, Kore Chase Suspension, PowerSlot Rotors, AFE Pro-Guard 7 Stage 2, MBRP 4" Dual Exhaust, DiPricol Boost & EGT in A-pillar, FASS, van Aaken C3.2
Phase 2: TBD: Banks Techni-Cooler, SouthBend Con OFE clutch, RoadArmor Stealth Bumper, Warn 16.5 winch, FabFours rear bumper, Quadzilla XZT, Jacobs' Exhaust Brake, and I'm still shopping.

 

I'd suggest getting DiPricol Optix gauges. They're really nice, and lit by LED's. I have Isspro EV's, and they're also pretty nice.

Skip the boxes you chose and go with one, a TST PMCR w/ R49 remote. Buy it once and be done with it. If you need more later, then stack it with something like a MP-8 or EZ.

The OFE is sweet, and so is the Technicooler. If you're going to upgrade your turbo, get yourself a BD blow-off valve. Your turbo will thank you for it.

Oh, and skip the cosmetics for now and get yourself a SPS66 or Silver Bullet, or something comparable.

My $.02 (plus a couple g's)

 

I'd highly recommend Sage Carli for your suspension.....more bang for your buck. I run some of his stuff and it's pretty sweet. I'm running a pair of Fox 10" shocks (long story, my 12" Kings are too long until the shackle flip is done) from a KORE kit, and I don't care for the way they're valved.

Great guy to deal with, you can find him here www.thecarlisuspension.com

 

Thank you for your input, I'll have to look into the alternatives again. So many options.