Ok I WAS gonig to flush the tranny fluid out, pulled the pan cleaned new filter, went to undo the output from the air cooler going back to the tranny. Looked in the SM, and couldn't find out how to dissconnect them. Not sure which part moves, which part comes out of which part. Was looking for a disconnected view of them with no luck. Didn't want to put too much force behind it, so I just did a normal pan drop and filter change. I cleaned all the dirt and grime off of the connector and still couldn't "see" what comes apart.

 

They are "quick connects" NEVER "quick dis connects", "pita dis connects" maybe. You need a tool to release the tabs in the connector.

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