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Well I talked to my dad and he said he had a feeling something was up because she kept having headaches in the mornings and kept coming home sick and what not. I just confirmed his suspicions. My parents pamper my sister a lot more than they ever did me and I think what's happening is that she's gotten used to mom and dad bailing her out whenever she gets in trouble. I made that point to my dad and it seemed to have turned a light on upstairs. Hopefully they'll do something about it. I don't mind her going out and stuff, lord knows I do it, but it's the lying about where she's going and what she's doing that bothers me. I mean seguin isn't even in the same direction as college station. Not even remotely close.
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From: Lyndon KS
Originally Posted by BigBlue
Thanks for all the advice and thoughts. I really do appreciate it. I just hate to see her make choices that I know will screw up her life. I only want the best for my lil sister and I don't want her to go through the struggles and what not I've gone through. I just don't understand how her and I are so different. I'm so laid back and easy going and she's just as hard headed as can be. Oh well. Thanks yall. I really, really, really appreciate it.
Be her "big brother" and be her friend, thats the best thing you can do for her till she gets it straight.
The "mistakes" we make are part of what form our charactor as adults, they become part of who we are. Didnt your Dad ever tell ya that he didnt want you to make the same mistakes in life he had made? bet so... bet you didnt listen either...
a child never understands what "hot" actually means untill they burn their hand......
hang in there ........
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From: dfw texas
shes is just seeing how much she can get away with, all kids do it. but at her age your parents have done all they can do beside cutting her money off. it will work out, just give it some time.
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I think everyone here has pretty much hit the nail on the head, I'd just like to offer that if there is somethin this lowly Canuck can do to help , the PM button is only a click away.
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From: Laredo
Originally Posted by BigBlue
I need yall's help. I've got an 18 year old sister that I'm afraid is on a very dark road that will land her in either jail or the morgue. She lies about where she goes, what she does, who she's with, everything. Like this past weekend. She said she was coming up here to College Station to go dancing (I was back home) but instead she drove to Seguin and got drunk. She tries to blame the smoke smell in her car on other people(I know for a fact it's her). Stuff like that. She treats my entire family like dirt no matter how nice we are to her. She goes to college in august and frankly I'm scared to death for her. I've tried to talk to her and I've tried to tell my parents everything but she wrote me off a long time ago and my parents think that I'm just trying to get her in trouble since I'm her big brother. What can I do? I really appreciate yall's help. I just don't want her to have to go down the same road I've been down. Thanks yall.
Tyler
while not my sisters, i have two cousins, 15 and 19 that both happen to be models. Them girls first of all must belong to the milkman, because their rents are both butt uglee....
I dont care she is my moms sister. Both of them girls have these issues. They moved to Humble Tx, but when they were here they were on the same path. Except they would dress kinda provokatively, (tight tops and jeans) and would kiss every guy whether they knew him or not on the cheek. They were literally askin to get beat up by other girls, and their flirtiness and so forth just made for perfect bait to land cousin rick in jail. All i did, was let them be, if they need help then id go help them, other than that just let them be. I know u care for ur sis, and i know that rebellion phase is what has her treatin ur rents wrong man, but shell snap out of it when she sees that her friends will not always be there for her, but her family will. I know its how i snapped out of it, and so far its the lesson the older of my two cousins is finding out right now...Explains why i keep my friends limited, (very) and why i tend to trust my family more than anyone else...
Best of luck man
Tx
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